That's a hard question to answer because I don't know anything about you. I suggest saying hello to a few people here on Zoints. Everytime you enter an "interest" on your profile, that interest creates a link to other people that included the same interest. I suggest you list your interests in broad one or two word categories. Instead of "I like to spend time with my family and friends" say "family" and "friends" etc. Then when you click on the interest you've linked to you'll see lots of other people that have included the same interest.
Instead of "love to read" you'll find more people if you just include "reading"